There are different levels of collars in our lifestyle, from training, play collar, permanent collar and daily collar, etc. For purposes of this writing and my meaning it is in regards to my permanent collar, the collar that I wear daily 24/7.
The collar Master has placed around my neck reminds me of my place and that i am His property. This is still true without the collar but it is a physical representation of His ownership and love, and represents my place.
The collar is security that i am loved, cherished and protected. It represents that i have given my heart, mind and body to my Soulmate, the One who guards and nourishes me to grow. That ihave given my privacy and decision-making over to a greater being. That in giving, i gain, i gain freedom from having control. Freedom to grow and be the best version of me possible. Master has given me His heart, soul, trust, understanding, discipline and reward. To signify this He has given me a sign that i am worthy of being owned, His collar. i am slave 24/7, therfore every day,every where i go i am always His slave. His collar signifies whoi serve.
It is as binding as a marriage and shall be treated as such.Physically and emotionally i don't need to wear a collar to be collared. But society at large, although not for everyone, conditions us that we need some type of material possession to remind us of the inner portions of our being. As humans we understand symbolic meanings. Marriages are represented by their wedding rings. If one is married and does not wear their ring, they are still married. Same goes for the collar. i am lucky to have a permanent collar that i can wear 24/7 representing this union and i don’t take that for granted.
The collar is symbolic of my existence and the reason i was born. To serve and be used by men. That direction of being in service and being used is only given by the One who owns me. i even have dreams that more people would recognize the collar and its meaning, but it is the lifestyle that we have chosen.
i am His, He owns me ....... Despite what, if anything, is around my neck. But when the collar is placed around my neck ....something magical happens..... my breath becomes His breath..... At that moment i am special beyond all others.... no longer known to others as just a girl, i am His girl, His slave. It becomes a physical and emotional reaction to being owned. ican touch His love, i can touch Him, by touching His collar.
His collar shows that i am cherished, loved, protected above all else in His world..... It is a symbol of His pride, the truth of His love and commitment. i am safe in my place when His collar is around my neck, because i am owned, needed, desired and loved.
Our union is represented by His collar and the commitment thati pledge the rest of my life in service. my vow of service, my will to serve, my ever trying will of obedience. The collar reminds me of my servitude and that i am owned and it inflames not only my heart but my entire being. It remenids me that i am more than just a girl. More is demanded and expected of me. The collar holds me accountable as if Master’s hands were around my neck enforcing my behavior.
The collar represents the ability of my Master that He can actually, in earnest, put me on my knees, that His power is great and His control unwavering. That if need be by restraint; by leash, tether or yank of the hand. The collar is His bound control over His slave. That in choosing me as His slave i have also chosen Him as a Master worthy of giving my all to.
i am not a trophy, i am a piece of owned property i am bound till Master releases my mind, body and heart back to me. i have to continue to be worthy of this place at His feet, worthy to be His slave and to wear His collar. i have to live to serve His desires, wants and needs putting Master and His will before everything else. i have to honor and obey with the heart of a slave.
For me the collar is deeper in meaning than a wedding ring. It demonstrates that Wwe have both developed an understanding of Oour roles to where Oour places are set firm, thus no wavering. He is Master and fully in control at all times and i am slave at the disposal of His will. i can't go out and file for divorce on my own free will, because i have no will but His. An act of separation will never sever this union and bond, there is only His release if, God forbid, He ever saw fit for me to be free. my submission is given, not taken from me. It is not forced around my neck, it is placed there in exchange for my submission in recognition of my worth to be collared as Master's slave.
This collar is a symbol that reminds Uus both how Wwe have bound Oour lives together as Master and slave. That i have worked hard to be worthy and to be of service fit for my King and that my service brings respect and honor to the Master iserve.
The collar denotes ownership and control, permanence and absolute authority, linking Master to slave in a material stronger than steel or any metal and more long lasting than any wedding ring or promise. There is no higher honor in solidfying a slave’s position on this earth, than wearing a collar bestowed upon her neck by a Master who loves her.
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